Advice: 6 Things A Guy Should Never Do To Impress A Lady
We
guys have been made to think that we must always do anything possible
to impress the female folk. I’m not against a guy loving her babe, I’m
against a guy doing silly things in order to impress a lady.
The truth is that most times, these actions come back to haunt us while, we get to regret at the end.
1. Consuming too much alcohol: most guys are guilty of this especially
when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to bed. This is wrong in so
many ways:
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it will damage your health, its a temporary measure, you most times
end up misbehaving and its not a guarantee that you’ll succeed in wooing
or performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will know that you took
something and that you
lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself.
2. Spending above your means: whether its buying things you don’t really need in
order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the lady with things you normally should
not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of guys do this and I keep wondering to
what purpose? The worst is many of them come back to their senses when its already too late!
3. Lying: I’m not talking about the small lies guys normally tell,
I’m talking about bragging to a lady about what you’re not. Why tell a
lady your father is Dangote’s
brother, or you’re a Chelsea player, or you work in Shell. This will
make her have high expectation from you which you would be trying to
live up to.
4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy that is also coming after
her. Its wrong for a guy to maltreat his fellow in any way because of a
lady. Whether its badmouthing, fighting or quarelling with him, its not
worth it.
5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe you’re a committed Christian
or Muslim, you start backsliding or become uncommitted because she told
you to. You start to abandon your loved ones and family, your studies
begin to nosedive and even
your job sef, you become unserious. Its a very silly thing to do because
when the chips are down, those are the only things that will get you
going- God, your family and loved ones and your job which will put food
on your table.
6. Pretending to be who you’re not: there’s no need to pretend to be a
bad guy if you’re not. There are still ladies who values good guys.You
don’t need to force yourself to seem confident if you’re a shy guy.
People will know you’re just acting it up.
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