10 Things Every Woman Should Have At Age 30
When
I turned thirty in September (Virgos baby!), I became obsessed with all
those online lists of the things every woman should have by the big
3-0. Proudly, I admit, I was able to check off quite a few of the most
common ones – sexy little black dress, a skincare regimen, more than one
ex, etc. – but I didn’t earn an A+. No worries, really. No unique woman
fits any one list, I say. However, I did start to think about the sort
of tools a 30-something wife oughta have under her belt when she hits
that milestone age. Hence, this little list was born. If you tied the
knot before thirty, I welcome your feedback. If you didn’t or haven’t,
no judgments here – although, this list probably isn’t for you. (Don’t
hate me.) That said, you can still weigh in too.
1. A Recipe that Will Make Her Husband Forgive Her for Anything
Admittedly, I’m still working on this one – I’m domestically challenged!
– but, many wives have recommended I have one, so there must be
something to it, right?
2. A Secret (or Not-So Secret) Account for Impulsive Shop Therapy
I don’t believe in “hiding” cash from your spouse, but I’m fully in
support of enjoying what’s left of your paycheck after you and hubby
have combined funds to take care of all household expenses, saving and
beyond. Sliding a little bit of that remaining money aside and into an
account he can’t see never hurt anyone. To me, it just means hearing
“that bag cost how much?!” a few less times a season. (Wink!)
3. A Great Mattress (With Room for You Too!)
I don’t know about the sleeping arrangements in your bedroom, but in
ours, my husband and dog both sleep like there’s no one else in bed but
them. This inevitably leaves very little room for mama. Back when we had
a crappy full (yes full!) sized mattress this was absolutely
unbearable. But, when we splurged on an upgraded, queen-sized,
pillow-top mattress, suddenly that all changed overnight. I still think
my husband sleeps like he’s making a snow-angel and our dog doesn’t
realize she’s not a toddler, but at least there’s room for me and
falling asleep happens fast enough for me to barely notice.
4. A Go-To Foundation that Doesn’t Love Your Husband’s Shirt
I’ve learned this one the hard way. The cheaper the makeup, the
friendlier it is with your clothes, and his. The nights I want to look
the best are usually the same ones I want to spend snuggled up with my
husband in a restaurant booth or something. Honestly, all foundations
rub off at some point, but some are worse than others and you know it. I
have found a few foundations that allow me to be confident enough to
buy my husband white shirts as Christmas gifts again, so I know you can
too.
5. A Happy Place
The mall. Home Goods. The spa….Your bestie’s house. I really don’t care
where you go to find your zen moment and bask in it, just know where it
is and how to get there fast when you need to.
6. A Friend Who Truly Never Gets Tired of Hearing You Vent
It’s true. Marriage really does have its ups and downs, and when the
roller coaster has you raging down a steep, seemingly endless hill, you
will need a kind shoulder to call on. Know whom it belongs to and
appreciate the gift that is pure, kind, non-judgmental friendship at its
very finest.
7. A Cocktail or Wine You Can Count On
Now, I’m not encouraging alcoholism or bar hopping here, but the right
drink can remedy more bullshit than most medicines. Know your drink of
choice and don’t be afraid to add it to your weekly grocery list.
8. A Sexy Lingerie Set that Will Make Her Husband Forgive Her for Anything
Does this need an explanation? Invest, ladies!
9. Life Insurance Policies
Death of a spouse is not something anyone likes to plan for, but it’s
not something you ever want to be unprepared for either. We’re in the
process of getting this together presently. One thing we’ve learned so
far: It’s far more affordable the sooner you open the policies, and
there are so many options out there that it’s worth taking your time,
doing the research and choosing wisely.
10. A Cute Pair of Shoes She Can Take On Anything In
From daylong errand runs to back-to-back friends’ kid’s birthday
parties, sometimes weekends are unavoidably exhausting. It’s tempting to
cop out and sport sneakers or boots all day, but if you must look the
part, it pays to have a pair of shoes that are truly fabulous and
comfortable too. I know. I know. They’re tough to find. Believe me, I
get it. But seek and eventually ye shall find at least one pair. And,
when you do, cherish them!
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